Maddie Bricken – Featured Rider

Maddie Bricken – Featured Rider

Through Instagram I’ve been incredibly fortunate to meet an incredible group of equestrians, one such person is Maddie Bricken. You can’t help but be drawn in by her gorgeous bright bay Leah and Maddie’s warmth, honesty and passion for all things equestrian. Maddie is prehaps better known as the women behind The Blonde & The Bay blog, and I was absolutely thrilled to have the opportunity to get to know Maddie better.

Not necessarily Leah related, but more along the lines of re-introducing myself 👋🏻 It’s hard to believe that over 2 years ago, I decided to start posting photos of my mare, Leah, just as a creative outlet & something fun to document our journey. Little did I know that our Instagram would become SO much more! As we’re almost half way to 10K of you following along, I wanted to say hello & give ya’ll a few tidbits about myself… • For those of you just jumping into my adventures with Leah, my name is Maddie & I’m 24 years old, living in the beautiful hill county of Texas. • I just received my Real Estate License & I’m beginning my career in this industry under my family’s firm. • My riding career started at the age of 3 when my mother would lead me around on her 17.3HH Hanoverian gelding… Little did my parents know that horses weren’t going to be just a temporary phase. • I’ve been showing & training competitive Dressage for 13-ish years after a short lived stint in the hunter ring. • Leah, my coming 17 year old mare, is a Dutch Warmblood bred out of DG Bar in California… she became mine in 2013 after a devastating experience with my last horse. When I met her, my confidence was shot, so much so that I was afraid to get back in the saddle. It’s been a very slow, long process but she’s been my rock through so many things. Because of her, my love of horses & Dressage flourished. She’s more than just a horse; she is my blessing. • Creativity & fashion are two things I’m very passionate about, as my father designed clothing for many years. In 2016, I launched the Mare Mantra tee which took off! I have more merchandise in the works, as I’ve said before. I can’t wait to share what I’ve designed with ya’ll. • Outside of riding, I love spending my time with my friends & my family – that’s pretty much a given. Being outdoors is my favorite, especially if it involves a chilled glass of rosé. A short bio worthy of a post, I’d love to be able to connect with my ya’ll even more, so I’m opening up the comments for a little Q&A 😌 Ask me anything & let’s get to chatting! #TheBlondeBehindTheScreen

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How did you find your way into the saddle?

My mother… I still vividly remember her perching me onto her all-purpose saddle, coaxing me to hold mane, and leading me around on her 17.3hh Hanoverian, Bob. I was three years old at thetime. A typical horse crazy teenager, she recalls all the moments she’d ride her Appaloosa gelding with her radio tied to the back of her western saddle, or stories of the sort. Her passion for horses was definitely handed down to me, and my parents quickly realized that horses were simply not a childhood phase. My grandfather was also very involved in the racing side of the horse industry, from traveling to the Triple Crown races to owning a few thoroughbreds through
partnerships. I grew up in a ranching and farming family – horses were also important to my stepfather, from working cattle to leisurely riding throughout our land. My love for equestrianism was highly influenced by my family, and I’m so thankful they encouraged me to find my passion from a very young age!

What is it that draws you to dressage and inspires you to keep progressing as a rider?

So, fun fact: dressage was not my first discipline of choice. In fact, I can tell you the exact time my mom told me we were transitioning to a dressage barn from a hunter/jumper barn, and my firm resistance that came in a flow of tears. Looking back, I can’t help but laugh when I think about my stubbornness. I’ve now been competing and training dressage for almost 14 years! Creating a true partnership with the horse through understanding, communication via numerous different aids, and respect is what draws me into this sport. Technicality and difficulty would be another factor, as interesting as that sounds. We strive to achieve perfection, but any rider will never reach perfection, so it’s a huge mind game… The harder we work, the better we become, and that feeling alone is somewhat addicting. My drive to be a well-rounded dressage rider is what inspires me to continue progressing as a dedicated equestrian. You never stop learning in this sport; there’s an influx of information coming your way each time you swing a leg over the saddle. In order to be successful with anything, you have to be receptive to criticism, both good and bad. Each “tool” I gain from my trainers, clinicians, even judges at competitions, inspire meto turn their critiques into progress within the arena.

Creating a true partnership with the horse through understanding, communication via numerous different aids, and respect is what draws me into this sport. Click To Tweet

 

Maddie Bricken - Featured rider

 

You’ve been really busy recently as you work towards transitioning careers. How have you managed to balance riding and your career?

Ah, the elusive question of how to balance life with riding. I get this question a lot, and to be honest, I’m still working to figure out the answer. I made the switch from working in retail to the real estate industry for the flexibility in scheduling and the opportunities to advance monetarily. Joining my family’s real estate firm was one of the best decisions I could have made for my personal growth. Personally, I wanted a career that would allow plenty of time to continue chasing my dreams and passions – real estate just fit the bill. There are weeks when riding is very limited, and I’m thankful that I never have to worry about Leah getting worked. As an Adult Amateur rider, dressage is our hobby and our careers do take precedence most of the time. I manage the balance by setting aside time to ride around my daily tasks or meetings. I take also advantage of my weekends as prime riding time! I think it’s all about time management and staying proactive, even if you only have 25 minutes to ride. A short amount of time is better than no time at all.

 

What would your advice to other riders be?

  • Take other people’s critiques and opinions lightly. Trust me, there will never be a time in life where someone won’t have something to say about your lifestyle and riding career. Find a solid support group, whether that is your family, your friends, and your trainers – and surround yourself with positive, uplifting people. It’s taken me a solid while to weed out the good people versus the toxic people in my life and honestly, I’ve never looked back!
  • If you want it badly enough, you’ll work hard enough. Don’t make excuses because then people start to not take you seriously. For the longest time, I felt like a lost puppy when it came to setting goals with my riding. Then, something just clicked, and I told myself that no one was going to stand in my way of achieving said goals. I worked incredibly hard (I’ll pat myself on the back for that) along side my trainers and the proof was in the competition arena. No one can take that away from me, regardless of how hard they try.
  • Don’t be too difficult on yourself – I need to take this advice, actually! Us dressage riders are self admittedly OCD with a dash of perfectionism sprinkled in our personality. Or if you’re like me, a huge dash. It’s so easy to beat yourself up over the smallest things or mistakes, but that’s an exercise in futility. We’re working with horses that are living, breathing, independently thinking animals. They have days where nothing goes right as well, which inevitably makes us feel like sacks of potatoes on their back. Dressage is an ebb and flow – more times than none, you’ll walk away feeling a bit discouraged about your ride or test. However, it’s how you decipher the good from the bad that determines your character as a rider. I try to take one good thing from each ride and focus on that rather than the negative. It really helps, especially if you have the tendency to walk away feeling defeated. So, don’t beat yourself up! This is a journey, not a sprint.
  • Lastly, always thank your horse. They are our partners, not our machines.
Lastly, always thank your horse. They are our partners, not our machines. Click To Tweet

 

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Stay tuned for part 2 of my interview with Maddie where we get to know Leah!



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